Little things, little steps, lil-bit care, here and there impact more than big talks, big steps and "unnecessary" big projects. Conscience, direction and perseverance help in long run. When you listen to your inner voice in any "noisy enforcement kinda atmosphere" then it may take a toil on your overall life but at the end you gonna feel content as well as more confident.
In last few years found many times at the crossroad having two, almost opposite direction. As always I listened to my inner voice. In general, I do not invest in people through someone/people especially when it is about personal relation. I do not keep or drag along non-investable or temporary relations. And when it's talk about investment in relations, it's always emotional bonding. I care two hoots about materialistic things at that front. The minimalist lifestyle always attracts. As a rule, I do not allow anyone to take decisions on my behalf. The worst feeling is when you come to know one after other that so and so person or people took decisions on your behalf even without your knowledge! Many such people you never ever met even or know so little! Many people you detest in totality not just dislike, some even literal goons! When at every step you feel offensive and wanna blast but looking at the complexity of situation learn to manage things your way.
This management included ignoring such people or situations, letters, correspondence altogether, even upto the extent of being rude with total silence if they still do not understand. If people do not know their limits, then they must be shown the boundary line. This is learning along time especially in these last two years that official scandals can be managed this way effectively. Rules and regulations in most such cases help. Then there are people who really wanna help and know to great extent whatever the hell is going.
In last few years found many times at the crossroad having two, almost opposite direction. As always I listened to my inner voice. In general, I do not invest in people through someone/people especially when it is about personal relation. I do not keep or drag along non-investable or temporary relations. And when it's talk about investment in relations, it's always emotional bonding. I care two hoots about materialistic things at that front. The minimalist lifestyle always attracts. As a rule, I do not allow anyone to take decisions on my behalf. The worst feeling is when you come to know one after other that so and so person or people took decisions on your behalf even without your knowledge! Many such people you never ever met even or know so little! Many people you detest in totality not just dislike, some even literal goons! When at every step you feel offensive and wanna blast but looking at the complexity of situation learn to manage things your way.
This management included ignoring such people or situations, letters, correspondence altogether, even upto the extent of being rude with total silence if they still do not understand. If people do not know their limits, then they must be shown the boundary line. This is learning along time especially in these last two years that official scandals can be managed this way effectively. Rules and regulations in most such cases help. Then there are people who really wanna help and know to great extent whatever the hell is going.
