Happy Go Lucky Kinda Stuff! Curious, atheist, lil-bit adventurous, lil-bit rebel, nature lover, sometimes feel like to read and travel.
Writing is drug, minute observer, believe in instinct, in awesome profession/academics.
Love my people and my pets and love to be surrounded by them.
Experienced a few wonders, made me believe more in the uniqueness of a person. Loved and liked more misfits, crazy, daredevils individuals. They can work even without any certificates or appreciations. These are those kinda believers who believe in themselves.
People who can question, stand against tides, rebel against status quo are the ones who lead societies. Others just follow them like herds.
Watched so many colors of human in 2016. Wonder, if there are some markers which provoke people to manipulate and lies!?
Overall, it was the year of Goons Empowerment. But their every cruel and mean act gave more strength and determination. Those who stood by me, thanks. A big thanks.
Special thanks to those special people especially the one/s who had to bear so much due to me.
Welcome 2017
The year for some pending tasks to complete. And for some pending tasks to take towards completion.
Hope for Better, Positivity and Peace, Good Health and Happiness to all!
Hope: Hope for some good change amidst all trials and tribulations. Hope. What a word!
Faith: It became a bit stronger kinda telling impossible is equal to possible.
Relations: The ones you find near in your bad time are yours. Sometimes, the ones you think dead, could be nearer. Aah! I thought someone dead and found a bit too near!
Some people have been taught by birth that relations come with rarest kind of priority pass. They are unique. They are the best treasures and possessions. No one else can take, steal, snatch, buy or use that priority. Irrespective of ups and downs of life they will be constant. They are life-long. Neither can they be compared nor disputed. They need respect. They need protection. They need space. Wherever any such thing does not exist; simple, such relations are difficult to sustain. Invest in relations where there is priority-pass. Real relations will be with you in bad times. Time pass will come along when you will be flying high.
Determination: Once, I put my mind and heart together. I do not believe in wasting my time, in vain. May be that's known as living on the edge.
Diary to Blog Conversion: Earlier this blog was kinda diary. Then came across this surveillance misuse and stalking. And the very first thing I learned was how to counter bullies and surveillance. Do not always write from your own experiences and perspectives. Do write from here and there. Be random. And converted a diary into blog.
There are so many do's and don'ts for every person on any social site especially for the bloggers. I felt many people have also changed their social networking style in last few years. They may be friends, fellow bloggers or random people in the surrounding. I would like to know more from friends, fellow bloggers and experts as I have learned a lot from them in these last few years.
Happiness Overrated: Some amount of stress is also important for growth. Lived on edge? Edge of life and death/threats/try to blackmail on this or that pretext for too long. Then you must know the real value of life. You must know what does mean to stand for something, come what may. As people who cannot stand for something can fall for anything.
Reverse Engineering: It's OK for machines but how much it can be helpful at human beings? Can it be especially in later case? If answer is "to some extent may be", then "at what cost to that person"? A psychological torture for life?
Augmented Reality: The speed, technology is over-smarting day by day is kinda hardware overpowering the software. Wonder, if it's the opposite?
Globalization: Like any other thing, it has its own pros and cons. It has been feared by dictators the most. The reason is it breaks their regional dictator-ship and allows rays of global light to spread over their "created darkness" and "dark holes". These people have created these holes by their illegal tekedaari and that is why they watch and talk about it the most. Inside their heart, they know they have done something terrible. It's not that globalization is losing the momentum. Rather it's gaining the momentum and breaking some shackles by rattling down narrow boundaries. Globe today is a Random-O-City. Have A Peaceful Day!
Opportunities come and go. Real relations are able to survive the tides of time. In bad times, these bonds become stronger. They do not need any kinda enforcements or any types of caging. They float free, allow growth, manage well distance and boundaries or any limitations, enter soul and stay there forever.
Everything gonna be alright! Rise above the up-down currents
See through the lens of optimism
Keep the spirit high to sail through
Dare to smile, feel lively, light and alive!
In war-cry times
(Pic from internet)
Happy International Peace Day!
What is peace?
When everything seems like boiling in the surrounding and you are able to be poised, composed and unshakable! Do not react even on provocation. Know well, how and when to respond. Know when to keep silence with all your senses alive. Do not let your mind blast into pieces. Do not let negativity drain out all your energy. Believe in yourself. Keep your peace of mind. Channelize all your energy in something worthwhile.
And writing mode is already on. Over the years, I have watched, read, heard and observed traditions, generation gap and fractions closely. Watching that now somewhere in next generation in the surrounding, in the village, in University, in students. Things have changed a lot with time. Over the years, I have heard and watched so much about honour killings in this region. Now there are more news and talk of the love marriages than honour killings. Things are changing for good at this route... steady and smoothly. Some Thekedaars are too much frustrated with this change. Things become dirtier when ugly politics get involved and instead of real issues, religion, history, snooping, stalking, misusing power and government machinery become day by day rule of governance. Ugly noise is in the air but as the new generation says, Who Cares!
Being a lil rebel somewhere, I have come across this unnecessary heat of ugly resistance, politics so many times, here and there. Starting from the school where gals used to go in traditional suits along with chunni and you used to go in shirts and shorts. In college time, where having boys circle, wearing jeans, going to canteen and library was a crime. And you did all that, just to defy dictates. Though not without consequences. Grandpa used to be in the principal room along with some of his friends (principal/s). Grandpa's wordings used to be "listen to your principal and teachers". And those grandpa's friends, perhaps used to be there just to add "Jaao bete, don't mind much these buddas, live your life". And I am living my life perfectly, living each and every moment of life Defying such Budaas! No offense to senior citizens but only to khadus people.
Being rebel does not exist in genes but environment and surrounding. I got the perfect environment and support system for that. Must thank that village and this region, it's oppressive political environment and social conditions. Some people get conditioned with the flow, hardly matters what type of flow is that. Only few believe in going against the tides to keep originality and pave the way to better environment.
Aazad Khayal Panchi and Winds of Change gonna be theme of these vacations in this blog and Surveillance on other.
Here is one of my favorite song. Regular readers of this blog must have come across this song many times. Once more...
V were not Born to Follow:
When life is a sweetener to cherish...
I don't wanna be another wave in the ocean I am a rock not just another grain of sand
Some places, some people, some hobbies, some surrounding are kinda instant peace zone. Those are the bliss zones. We realize their value even more in bad times. For a blissful life surround yourself with them.
EuroVision song contest has always been full of human's intense emotions and feelings. It has always been about touching something deep at heart and mind and making waves on the edges of gravitational forces. Kumbh of music lovers!
Intensity You are only one
Above song somehow reminds about Helena Paparizou- My Number One!
Fighter
Say yeh
Sea on the tide
Lighthouse
Solidarity Soldiers of Love
And list is long!!
Loved not just lyrics and beats but even the perfect changing visuals!
Yes! Anyone who gives wise advise. Can be a friend, any acquaintance, unknown writer, blogger, can be someone in the family, in surrounding. Off late, I realized kids (Yes!), next gen. nephews, nieces, juniors even students can be better mentors!
The reason may be that next gen. believes more in mentors, not those age old dictators (Bole to Guru).
The above words were actually part of some discussion with friends, a few years back. The discussion part was on dress and male stare in this part of world. In every sphere of life, we are bloody hypocrites. Something strange, I came to know in last few years is that most such males are COWARDS! Hardly matters, how much powerful someone feels, he is! Challenge them and they will be on backfoot! Well, we are a rainbow society. Look at the positive side "always" BUT at the same time dare to challenge the bad also to keep the air fresh. Weather is good.
I call it V-Day rather than Valentine's day! I loved to celebrate this day with close friends or with family at home. And for me, any celebration means just being with those people, I love. Since last few years, there is much talk in the air about my life, with special focus on love. I am far away from being a loner or so-called Hi-Fi! Just another normal gal, who loves to be surrounded by only those people whom she feels, she can interact well, without any kinda judgements. There is much talk about one guy in my life with so many interesting stories.
Someone who made this hohalla on that name said
She loves him, he loves her
He loves her, she loves him
Pilot, Helicopter, Salim-Anarkali and blah, blah
And kept on repeating the same.
I said: Yes I Do! But what is this hohalla about So-Called Salim-Anarkali?
He said: Metaphysical, The Other!
I said: Oh really? And why are you so much mad about me? Why are you writing day and night just about me? Have nothing else to do in your life? And what the hell is this metaphysical and the other?
He said: I am the intruder! I am The Hitler! I am there not just here on internet but everywhere, wherever you are! Check out! Your home, office, on road, in your lawn, in kitchen, in bathroom, in bedroom!
I said You Pshycopath! Get Lost! You Dirty, Mean and Ugly Creature!
He said I cannot! I am The Hitler! And its not just me but I am there with my goonda gang! Stripping you, cutting your body pieces and throwing them here and there. And see you cannot do anything about it!
I complained to the DGP, Haryana by thinking that probably Indian police is there to protect people from such predators.
But what was that?
Instead of throwing these disgusting creatures into the jail, our great Indian police did that to me and tortured the worst they could! They kept on torturing until one day I said OK! I remember, I am not the other but The One!
And they murmerd: Aah! That was what we wanted to listen.
OK! Listened? Now get lost!
And they said: No! We need you against that Salim.
Oh! So that was the whole drama?
COWARDS! Making fool! When both were saying, we were not in each others life. You people dragged us upto that point. Now listen, if to love someone is a crime, then I am that crimnal! But The Other? Never! Only The One!
NOW DO WHATEVER YOU SICK PSHYCOPATHS CAN!
And they said: Good! That was what we needed. If you would not assist us in our crime then we will declare you a criminal! We will declare you a terrorist, anti-national and you will die the perfect way!
Watch Here you are:
Wow! What A Song!
What A security and public!
Kinda Talibani Farmaan?
Are we in Afghanistan?
What A Torture!
What A Challenge!
Perfect Song for V-Day!
Irrade to aise na the magar lagta hai bana diye gaye hain!
The year started with duty being a "watchdog" as center superintendent in exams. A bit busy job than regular 9.00-5.00. And that is how I would like to live this year! I try to keep this zone "Rhythms of Life" away from any kinda negativity. I call this zone chillax zone.
Chillout
What you detest
Leave that away
From your cool zone
Or better even from life!
What you love
Keep that near heart
Peace and productivity
Sure gonna be yours!
What you believe
Fight for that
At whatever cost
Only way for content life!
Do not be coward
In testing times
That will determine
The worth of your life!
Do not give two hoots
To worthless well's frogs
Tur-tur drafts and crafts
Live your life, Bindaas!
Hooked to Good Weather Forecast
and Tim McMorris songs
A year of travel, adventure, venture out
Explore and
Challenge the challenges and live life to the fullest!
