Inheritance of DNA

It is so foolish, funny and petty when people talk about having own kid or try to create bonding via so-called own kid to sustain any relationship. Height, to sustain any relation!

In gambling, seman-tic or syn-tactic bonds can be great. But if people like each other then where is the need of any such tactical moves? To hell with the game. It seems such tactics can be great to put a lid or cover up some ghastly crime, done by the same people repeatedly over the years. 

What is inheritance? We know that 99.99% of our DNA is already there in our relatives.  So what is this pass on inheritance necessity? Is it some necessary evil? Not just humans but even human and chimpanzee DNA is so close. Then what is that special, we will lose by not having so-called own kids or by having adopted kids? I wonder why people are so touchy-feely about having so-called own kids either by hook or crook even in the 21st century? Why so narrow ideas even when you call self so-called progressive? 

What a person needs to have a fulfilling life? Some hope, some dream, someone to love, to care, something to achieve. Anything else? It's not just a typical traditional unit/family and way of life to achieve that. There are so many ways. 

The Khujraho-Bhand-Rajgiri or the Pshycho-Shadow-Friendsweepy or any such height of down-rotten criminality, all are so disgusting even to think. What type of creepy criminal series are these? To hell with Kangaroo-courts. They are too interfering in people's lives.  Governments are not enough for that? Humans are not to experiment or test (especially without their consent) but to love and care. 

And what about chairs that skip their duties and act like puppets on whatever name? Should not they be countable if we really want a progressive and healthy society? A person requesting, writing time and again to restore her professional rights but the puppets are either watching or letting and allowing criminals to block every zone of professional development. On that even trying to show that they are helping and caring! Helping in what? 

Any progressive society needs to understand the creepiness of the so-called "Khandkaas and Mustache". More than Dhonsh, progressive societies need Hosh and evolution with time.  Rather than focusing on semen-tic or syn-tactic zone or creating hurdles in people's rights, we need to understand what people really need to have a fulfilling life, a happy and healthy society. 

For any progressive society, we need to understand genetics and inheritance too and challenge pseudo fact files of stupidities.  

We need to shut-up some so-called communists too especially the literate tech. criminals who are able to talk about even crimes like doing some great social work. 

(Start anti-mosquito, anti-dengue, anti-termite, anti-malaria, anti-pollution, anti-terrorists, anti-liberal treatment please!) 😑😎

Narrow Views Cannot Cage Me

Narrow views or narrow-mind people cannot cage me. What I felt with time, in a try to cage me they caged themselves for life. 

वक़्त गया कहाँ वक़्त तो आया है

गया वक़्त कुछ लेकर गया है तो कुछ देकर भी गया है  

You always get something at the cost of something else. There is no such thing that cannot give something back as a positive impact provided we have eyes to look at that side. Live in the timelessness of good where the beauty of life is eternal. Get rid of whatever makes things complex and hamper growth.

What one defines, may not fit in some other person's criteria like happiness, like this numeral gambling, like keeping even those numbers in the game who are dead long back without any value addition to the concerned person. Keep whatever is good and useful. Do regular decluttering. It helps to make things simple and aesthetic. Invest in relations, in bonds, in people of your leanings, interests, and views. They give stability. Evolve and adapt along with diversity as the world is diverse. Diwali cleaning program seems still underway and goes on the whole year.

Value Addition!

Value addition is to help in achieving or give what a person feels s/he needs, not what others feel one must-have. The same is true about any society, system or government.

Do you love, like, care, have any concern for a person or people? How would you treat that person? It defines in itself any relation, any bond then be it personal or professional. It also defines social bonding, justice, system and the government. How much you involve people in decision making which directly influence their lives? Or you tend to take decisions on others behalf? Do you care about their sensitivities also while doing anything or it's just about getting results either by hook or crook? In the process do you make things more complex and ugly or they become simple and better? Most importantly what you become in the process itself? Are you accountable for your actions? With what intentions you are doing anything?

Value addition is like that light which removes darkness but the same light can burn and be the cause of destruction, depends on how it has been used and for what purpose. Same is true about technology and each and every action of ours. Every action has some reaction. Every reaction has some action. The decisions in haste or decisions in hate, in general counter themselves with time.

The poised and composed mind is the state where one does not feel too high in victory or feel too low in defeat. Only such minds can add value to anything. Any punitive actions are worthless if they do not have any corrective measures.

Simplifying Life in a Complex Conflict Zone

Take care of your priorities. Most important is being content. Everything else is overrated.

Take care of your hobbies. They take care of you in all your ups and downs.
Blame game is a waste of time. So many things we do not write about. So many things are not spoken about. 
Forgive people but not their names. Chances are they will come again in life with worse designs!
Get out of complex zone. Get out of control freaks zone. They kill sanity.
Progress without humanity is always regressive and lethal. Rarely such progress can help humans.
Any kinda testing on human beings without their consent is slavery. Either step away from any such zone or take corrective measures. Even when we talk about consent, it's about informed choice without any ill design or intention.
Punishment just for the sake of punishment is a retarted gamble. It would not make people even feel the guilt of their crime. But can create ugly chain reaction of crime.
Two wrongs can never make one right.
Only fools can be sure about most things. A rational mind keep the space for doubt.
Give people chances to improve upon their life even if they are hard core criminals. No one is hundred percent right, no one can be hundred percent wrong.
Nobody can conquer a powerful mind but anyone can be melt by a soft heart. 

Forgive people eapecially when you have so much in control to finish them to the worst! 

Correct Information is Important

Information is important err correct information is important. When people do not give you information or intentionally put in blackout zone then there are ways to get information though it takes lots of time and energy. Blackout zone means people have done something terrible or wanna do, that is why they need to hide. Another wrong they do is the feeling that they can correct the future course by taking decisions on their own without involving the stakeholders. It all depends whom that future would suit and whom not!

Power and money hide lots of crime. The so-called righteous course taking people have done more horrible wrongs than the ones especially common people towards whom they raise fingers and pick selectively. In any democracy, any kinda Kangaroo courts should not be acceptable but so-called intelligent people from higher education, defence, corporate with the tacit support of governments over the years are running ugliest kind of mining projects. 

When any society, institution or country kill its human resource, that human resource kills them back. Is not it? How many resources, money and time have been wasted in these game plays and card games? Who got the benefit, if any? The more I know, the more I feel baffled. At times feel, blocking information means prolonging the crime and keep running the game, the way it's running since so long.

Being Content Amid Chaos

 Watch chaotic hurdles silently, observe minutely and then do whatever wanna do. This is an amazing time.

देवताओं के यहाँ कांड बड़े-बड़े हैं

इंसान बने रहना, बात ये बड़ी है

Religion and Education

Stupidity or simple excess of some specific type of religious activities have increased to a great extent, in the education system. For Example:

Havan before the start of a semester

Tulsi Pujan

Keep on rolling your eyes. We are in great times! 

Wonder in a diverse society like India, is it any healthy sign? That is also at the University level? And I am not talking about some Sanskrit department.

I remember just after some days of my joining, someone invited me to "Jagran". And I was like Jagran? Sorry, I do not attend such programs. A senior colleague was standing nearby me. She knew me since my Ph.D days and informed that lady in a taunting way, "Nastic hai ye!" 

It is not about Nastic, Astik or some specific religion or traditions. But the diversity. What we are doing to that? Even in families, we are tolerant of this diversity. Are not we? Then why such stupidity, even at the higher education level? 

As per UGC Code, Conduct and Ethics, are we even supposed to do all this? 

Fall And Rise!

Like a kid learns to walk

The game says do not fall into the trap, rise with every entrap. Do not ever try to fit into the way just any aira-gera-nathu-khera tries to make you. Always have your own ways. What I realized in this game at every step, people tried to overpower the other party by using their ways rather than applying their own mind and that is how fallen into their trap after trap. By trying so people do not use their own mind, I call them bhejhe se paidal log. Rather try a befitting reply kinda fitting into someone else shoes. And most of the times someone else shoes do not fit and create problems. On that, they think themselves over-smart. Can you do anything about such people? At least can smile and do whatever you wanna do. 

Fall is easy while the rise is like swimming against the tides. Many times you will come across people who may seem to talk in favour just to provoke, very sweet talkers, in reality distributing poison (personal experiences). 

Do not like politics, politicians and blah, blah. Well, every person is not made for that. It's fine. 

Last but not least: Is there any difference between Congress, BJP, Communists and blah, blah, blah? Saare ak hi thali ke chate-batte hain ;)

Simple funda of life -- Suno sabki, karo manki!

Good Morning!

Might Or Right?

Some things we do better in the team while some alone. We learn fast and better in team in some aspects while opposite is true in some other. Some things we learn from kids and younger people better while some from experienced ones. 

Since last two years, it's more or less solo learning and working while watching and experiencing how different committees and cases work. When "crafted and drafted cases" are there then to a certain extent solo working works the best as different forces try to take you in different directions. Many times, what's on some people's mind is there as a priority, does not exist even in your scheme of things. Your mind refuses to work certain way. At times rather most of the times, it refuses to work on given directions even so-called official directions, total illegal in nature or more or less a designed language fitting certain way, while exposing their game to the worst. 

For now this much. With time will write more, case by case. Probably need little-bit more time. 

Being Content!

You go through the worst over the years but come out the better, not the bitter. You have your own dreams for your life, not enforced ones. You have your own ways to deal with bad people and bad situations. These ways and situations might not match with the twisted or deranged or greedy minds. But it's OK, if you are content with your life. You have your own ways to deal with difficult people and situations. 

Life is beautiful if we know what to talk, with whom and how and at what point of time. What to avoid, with whom and why. What to accept and what to refuse. There is variety in the world of a rainbow of colours. There are the ones who feel ashamed when they should feel offended, mostly the girls side parents, relatives, well-wishers in this part of the world. There are the ones who lie blatantly even while being at public and responsible posts. They feel like "chinti, zoon masli ja sakti hain like tach, tach". Even when caught publically showing their tekedaari (Link Raaz!), muscle power and money gamble! Such people cannot even understand that everyone in this world does not feel impressed by unnecessary show off of power and money drunkards. 

It's not always about achieving at whatever cost, either by hook or crook, sham, daam, dand, bhed. It's about being at peace and letting people live their lives. 

Conscience, Direction and Perseverance Help

Little things, little steps, lil-bit care, here and there impact more than big talks, big steps and "unnecessary" big projects. Conscience, direction and perseverance help in long run. When you listen to your inner voice in any "noisy enforcement kinda atmosphere" then it may take a toil on your overall life but at the end you gonna feel content as well as more confident. 

In last few years found many times at the crossroad having two, almost opposite direction. As always I listened to my inner voice. In general, I do not invest in people through someone/people especially when it is about personal relation. I do not keep or drag along non-investable or temporary relations. And when it's talk about investment in relations, it's always emotional bonding. I care two hoots about materialistic things at that front. The minimalist lifestyle always attracts. As a rule, I do not allow anyone to take decisions on my behalf. The worst feeling is when you come to know one after other that so and so person or people took decisions on your behalf even without your knowledge! Many such people you never ever met even or know so little! Many people you detest in totality not just dislike, some even literal goons! When at every step you feel offensive and wanna blast but looking at the complexity of situation learn to manage things your way.

This management included ignoring such people or situations, letters, correspondence altogether, even upto the extent of being rude with total silence if they still do not understand. If people do not know their limits, then they must be shown the boundary line. This is learning along time especially in these last two years that official scandals can be managed this way effectively. Rules and regulations in most such cases help. Then there are people who really wanna help and know to great extent whatever the hell is going.

Content Development

Presentation is all that makes a difference. The difference between who we are. What we represent ourselves. What our well wishers, family or friends wanna represent us. And what people with some ulterior motives wanna present. Be a receptive of all appreciation, criticism and commentary to evolve with time and circumstances. 

Finally it's on us what we wanna make with that.

Ghost in some people's mind

What some wanna reduce that ghost

Game of Thrones... ;)

Bingo ;)

Who you think you are

भारतीय नारी 
हर हाहकारी पे भारी
इंद्रधनुष-सी है पहचान उसकी
है ना वो कोई कॉपीकॅट कॉल!

                     As they say it's not what happens with you but what you wanna make out of that.

A Happy World!

Be who you are, not who people wanna make you

 

Kids grow faster

World is Diverse and Beautiful

There is good amidst wrong, bad and ugly. If you see dark around, even then there is light! 

In ugliest times, it can happen only when you would not let people define you in their terms. Your life, your rules and your terms. Sure, those rules should not come under illegality or bullying or torturing anyone. 

In these last few years, I found so many people, whom I used to respect a lot earlier commenting or behaving like "literal goons". To be just judgmental one thing but bullying...!? How to deal? Some of such well behaved people do not even know at times, that they are crossing the line to be called bullies! Need to point!

Tell with clarity that while behaving like that better care about your own image rather than trying to destroy someone else. Some people are not that fragile.

At times better simply ignore. Every barking comment or play does not need a response.

During the same time, I came across some people concerned and caring. How that happens? World is diverse and beautiful.

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Kinda

We broke your home-roof 

(And did special type of concrete roofing)

We broke your window glass 

(Campus first home)

And ahsaan on that to save you!

hmm Adam ruins everything!

And now a days it's Ketto adv.

Oops! Ketto!

(Current home dhamaal, old home kamaal!)

Kinda declaring cancerous and blah, blah

Bachao Abhiyan!

Gratitude to people for special care!

Circus!