World is Diverse and Beautiful

There is good amidst wrong, bad and ugly. If you see dark around, even then there is light! 

In ugliest times, it can happen only when you would not let people define you in their terms. Your life, your rules and your terms. Sure, those rules should not come under illegality or bullying or torturing anyone. 

In these last few years, I found so many people, whom I used to respect a lot earlier commenting or behaving like "literal goons". To be just judgmental one thing but bullying...!? How to deal? Some of such well behaved people do not even know at times, that they are crossing the line to be called bullies! Need to point!

Tell with clarity that while behaving like that better care about your own image rather than trying to destroy someone else. Some people are not that fragile.

At times better simply ignore. Every barking comment or play does not need a response.

During the same time, I came across some people concerned and caring. How that happens? World is diverse and beautiful.

Bachao Advertisement!

Kinda

We broke your home-roof 

(And did special type of concrete roofing)

We broke your window glass 

(Campus first home)

And ahsaan on that to save you!

hmm Adam ruins everything!

And now a days it's Ketto adv.

Oops! Ketto!

(Current home dhamaal, old home kamaal!)

Kinda declaring cancerous and blah, blah

Bachao Abhiyan!

Gratitude to people for special care!

Circus!

Interesting 2018

1. Digital numeral maze
2. Board games
3. Sylla-bus cards & credits
4. Enigma machine
5. Imitation of game
6. Paradoxical & accidental
7. Catch 22 & form 10 case
8. Defence architect & civil masaala
9. Psych-o-logical crypt-o-graphy
10. Come out of it & no escape

2018 and Control Measures Watch

People apply different control measures to manipulate things in different situations. Are human beings more or less control freaks? The more the control freak means more complex is the person, group, government and society and more difficult to deal. Is not it?

Control measures are also of two types. Soft control measures and hard control measures. Soft control measures revolve around relations. Hard control measures revolve around opposite parties, enemies and wherever people wanna score over their opposites. This year was a close watch over such control measures, freaks and interesting insights. It was also the year of watch and listen more, write and speak less. Blogging also got the taste of this. 

Reflection 2018

What count in relations? Just the time period? The feel of remaining there through ups and down? Some touch of ownness? The feel of care and share? The abrupt rough roller coaster ride? 

Which is more difficult to deal with, personal or professional problems ? 
Or one leads to another? How to define some time period? Probably like this...
Sometimes...
This too shall pass! 
Why you wanna stay still in this job?!
Bullying can lead to some murder?
How to deal ugly, crap, bitchy, bully stuff?

And then the dawn falls..
Look around... Look around... people's problems
Almost same! Just percentage and types differ!
And then you will find almost same behaviour by same people with someone else! Such people are repetitive offenders over the years. It's not about one or two years time period.

Lesson: Love your job, place or hometown institution feel but not as much that it can take a toll on your life. Only after this realization, resigned in 2017 last, joined back after call and verbal assurances. Did anything change? Yes! Look around... ;)

Life is A Miracle!

Picture taken from internet

We come out of obstacles

We go through obstacles

We live through obstacles

We grow through obstacles

Life at each step nothing but

Thousands of tiny miracles!

Ease of Working

What differentiate between developing and developed? It maybe in case of some person, relations, personal or professional, any institution, society or country, -- is the ease of working. The best environment propels growth. The worst environment leads to trivial fights and issues. Same applies to persons, relations, institution, any society or country. 

Ease of working environment differs same way, from mere ease of doing business, as index of happiness vs index of mere GDP calculations.

The environment itself reflects the index of ease of working of anything. It would have less conflicts, less fights or time wastage trivial issues. 

Plants! Designs!

Those M.Sc. days when classmates/girls beg you to give them your so-called boyish (jeans, shirts, shoes) cloths for some trip. In 90s, early 20s, in small cities, only few were considered lucky to be able to wear those so-called boyish cloths. And girls had to beg them from such friends for trips only! Those days :

Nature walks learning started with these Botanical designs. 

How plants move and spread along with sun and water! 

How environment impacts! 

How Air-Forces its ways! 

How mt acts as power house! 

How Zoo-Logy plays its role and Armies its ways!

How Y-chromosome walks along timeline!

Informed Choices!

Life is simple, easy and better where there are informed choices. 

Life is complex, hard and ugly where there are manipulative games. Same rule applies at personal and professional zone. It is also true about any society or country. The beauty of informed choices is that all rights and duties come along automatically. We do not have to enforce or manipulate anything and vice-versa.

Years back there was a curiosity what the hell were those shadows. Then why? Then what the hell were these repetitive designs and patterns. And then what the hell were these numbers and why? And then came to the point how faulty and ulta-pulta were these numbers! Almost a week back, I was discussing something in the class that what could be next design in this game, based on experiences till now. To some extent have gone through that in last few days! What next?

Me and my experiences and long vacations ahead, up-hill task!